Worcesterite Networking Mixer

The Worcesterite Networking Mixer is a casual get together, on the first monday of every month, for musicians, promoters, writers, designers, club owners and anyone interested in being involved in culture in Worcester to meet up and network with people like yourself.

This is a free event, there is no agenda. You can bring your cd's, business cards, flyers and meet other people involved in the Worcester scene.

Worcesterite Networking Mixer Schedule
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Networking Mixer

Nick's Bar & Restaurant
124 Millbury St.
Worcester MA [map]
www.myspace.com/nicksworcester

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duncan's picture

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No Mixer this Month. I am going to go back to the drawing board and start them up again in 2009. They simply aren't as effective at helping the scene connect as I had hoped they would be. If anyone would like to go meetup at Nick's tonight they are open, the Chip is behind the bar, the food is great, hell I may even still go down there.

Officially though, no mixer tonight.

terrible_buddhist's picture

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Just as an idea...the best mixers to me (that weren't the first mixers as the first one both times seemed pretty well attended) where back at ralphs when a bunch of musicians got together and jammed. People talked at the bar, had a few drinks, seemed just about every one had a song or 2 to play.

more thoughts tomorrow.

duncan's picture

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Yeah that was fun back at Ralph's for sure. Someone should start those up again or hang out at some of the open jams that are happening all over the city.

Personally I don't have any problems networking, I love going out to see shows and I am fortunate to play with some real talented people. I really wanted the networking mixer to be less about listening to music and having what is essentially a open mic, and more about talking about bigger ideas, how to market your band in and out of the city, how to record, artists meeting bands that need art, people making movies talking to people who want to be in movies etc. etc. A creative meet-up of sorts, with no formal outline and no agenda. These things still happen, I think that they just aren't happening in this context.

We did Networking Mixers for just over a year every month, then took a couple years off, I started them again a few months ago and they have pretty decent. I saw a lot of people networking but I didn't feel that it was truly being taken advantage of. I am going to rethink my approach and try something in January. I don't blame anyone for not taking advantage of useful things if I don't do a good enough job advertising their usefulness.

Wirrlygirl's picture

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will the Worcesterite Mixer continue to be more musician oriented?

I have some thoughts/ideas on mixers in the artists community...


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duncan's picture

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Yeah I would expect it to be music oriented if I was organizing it. I would be happy if you used the site to promote a artists meetup though.

Jim's picture

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Duncan, I'm one of the lame people who loved the idea of the mixers but never came down to one. It's just hard having (lots of) little kids and I'm already down at Nick's one night a week, so getting down there for two nights in one week would lead to me sleeping on the couch for a few days afterwards.

I like the idea of expanding it to include visual artists and even writers and other folks who do different kinds of creative stuff. I wonder if it would help if there were like one thing per mixer--like one band plays just for an hour, or one artist has their work showcased, or something, and then it's just relax and mix. The complication there would be that it would add the element of having to choose the showcased artist every time.

But I will come to one of the new incarnations, whatever it might be, I promise!


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duncan's picture

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The mixer never purposefully excluded any groups. Frankly, if artists and writers wanted to show up and network they could have, I still feel that perhaps it was my fault for not marketing the events better. I wanted it to be more organic than the ones that I did years ago. Less formal but more productive. I really wasn't organizing these events for me but for everyone. I try to keep in mind some of the obstacles of a event like this before I start throwing out the apathy card but it is very tempting sometimes.

As far as adding entertainment to showcase. It has been suggested countless times, always by people in bands :), I just don't like the idea. I am seeing music or playing music constantly and I feel that a night of mixing it up with other musicians without having to stand in silence while someone plays is more desirable. I would also be forced to book the act and then be concerned with the quality of the act and all that stuff. That's just me though, if someone came with a plan and wanted to help me with any of this stuff I would consider it.

gaberollins's picture

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I don't think it is such a bad idea to end the night with some music. I am sure on a Monday all they would play to is a few stragglers but by 11 or 12 on a Monday how much networking is really getting done vs buffoonery? (I am an advocate of buffoonery by the way, and networking)

Jim's picture

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It's not always apathy, though, Duncan, though I understand how you might feel that way. For me, with five little kids running around my house, and with evening obligations sometimes for school, as well as playing out once or twice a week, I just don't have an extra weekday evening to be out. (I also clearly won't be brunching at the Abbey anytime soon).

In a few years my situation will be different, but that's the reality I have to face right now.

steele here's picture

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5 kids, all your's? ..or do you have yourself a Brady bunch thing going on?

duncan's picture

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that wasn't directed at you Jim, in fact I think you guys do a good job of getting yourselves out there. I just sometimes wonder how much work people really do when it comes to this stuff. Like I said, I blame myself in some ways in not making it more effective for people.

Regarding bands Gabe, and others, I just don't see the upside to having bands at an event like this.

Jim's picture

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"5 kids, all your's? ..or do you have yourself a Brady bunch thing going on?"

All ours. Here's the short version: man and woman, happily married with three kids, go out and get drunk on their anniversary, come home and do what drunk people do, ten months later we have five kids. First twins on either sides of our families. Lucky us.

Wirrlygirl's picture

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"The Worcesterite Networking Mixer is a casual get together, on the first monday of every month, for musicians, promoters, writers, designers, club owners and anyone interested in being involved in culture in Worcester to meet up and network with people like yourself.

This is a free event, there is no agenda. You can bring your cd's, business cards, flyers and meet other people involved in the Worcester scene."

Considering this thread has evolved into feedback about the mixer I would like to offer up a few thoughts:

1. when I read the pitch of the mixer I do get confused...it seems to be directed at one aspect of the scene in Worcester but then invites anyone involved with culture in the city....so I question the scope of the audience being targeted.

2. With that in mind; how is culture in Worcester being defined?

3. Its a free event: conscious of it or not; people don't trust things and don't commit to things that are free. Perhaps it would help to have the mixer less often but charge a door fee and have food and a cash bar.
I worked the Business After Hours mixer that the chamber of commerce held 2 weeks ago. Business after hours they charged $10 to members and $20 to non members. More than 250 people showed up. It was a fantastic networking opportunity that also had no agenda. just people talking eating drinking and making connections.

4. Duncan, In your reply to Jim you question "I just sometimes wonder how much work people really do when it comes to this stuff. Like I said, I blame myself in some ways in not making it more effective for people."
Maybe they don't know what to do?
Perhaps the reincarnated Mixer could kick off with a loose agenda about "how to promote yourself" or "the business of music" or some other topic that could stimulate interest, attendance and conversation. Maybe even a guest speaker.
This point goes back to who the mixer is trying to attract and what they are going to get out of it.

5. I feel strongly that the sharing of information and other resources help build a stronger community, and this website definitely keeps that in mind. I think it would be a good idea to overflow resources posted on this site into the mixer.

that's what i have for feedback for now. what does everyone else think?

paintingloft's picture

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"on the first monday of every month, for musicians, promoters, etc...."
it seems to me that you are taking priority in mentioning the first group of people (in which you fall under) that probably already knows 80% of each other. what good is that? How about other groups of people that wheant to network? ty all fall under "and anyone else".

if I owned an italian restaurant and wanted to network I wouldn't go to this cause it sounds like a live entertainment meet up.

it sounds to me that Cindy has thought long and hard and is ready to donate time to make this work. Let's see what happens.

gaberollins's picture

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80% might be a stretch Scott, but I understand what you are saying. Many of us have been either been playing or have been behind the scenes in this city for a very long time and know the majority of the people in the city involved with music.

I can't speak for Duncan, but what I have always taken this thing to be is for folks who are newer to the whole process of trying to get your band a show, trying to get bands for shows, or trying to get involved with all the other things surrounding live music in this city.

Even if you think you know everyone there are always people you don't and always new people, bands and venues popping up and maybe just maybe if you put your heads together with them you can both further your own causes.

duncan's picture

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Sorry you're confused however this just makes me want to make it even more narrow in focus. I tried to be vague in the description so that people could feel free to use the mixed for whatever. In the future I think marketing it to musicians is more what I am inclined to do.

As far as your theory on free stuff, I disagree. It is a common argument that people don't value things that are free but there are plently of events and promotions that prove the contrary.

Scott. 80% yeah? I also disagree. The mixers have been very succesful on many ways. There are bands, events and connections that have been made directly as a result. I am rethinking the approach so that they can be even more effective, that's all.

I think you artists should start something up.

Wirrlygirl's picture

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We are already working on something through artsworcester that should be starting in the new year.

duncan's picture

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That's excellent. Best of luck.

Although I do love art and I am a designer by day, my interests regarding the mixer have always been towards musicians. I have a very specific idea of how I would like to see these things go. I feel that charging, having entertainment, speakers and things like that are great but not what I think would ultimately be effective. Having been to many networking events and tradeshows for business related things, I know how a more formal meeting can be. I am not a fan. I am interested in one on one conversations between people that would not ordinarily have a chance to talk. Worcester has people doing interesting things that simply have no way or at least no idea how to let people know about them.

What I am interested in is a organic group of interested people doing interesting things in Worcester that could eventually grow into an organization that would sponsor and create larger events, have larger meetings with speakers and valuable information. I don't want to put the cart before the horse and perhaps I will develop this smaller group of individuals more privately and then open it up to a wider audience in the future.

I also really want a private group were we can drink and have music all night, with secret handshakes, and hats.

That is what I am working towards.

brilliantriot's picture

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Can I be Grand POOH-BAH????
PLEEEEZZZZ


How the hell did I do that???

nytmare's picture

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sure

Jeremy's picture

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Free Hats!!!

Wirrlygirl's picture

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Duncan, Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the goals for the mixers, I think its a great idea that can help the community grow.
From my perspective the most challenging thing is knowing the wants and needs of the members of the community. Networking happens in organic ways at every event, whether it be a live music show, a gallery opening,or just people hanging out in a bar; stimulating conversation and ideas that could in turn benefit the scene at large. but they may not even now how to make it happen or as Duncan said " Worcester has people doing interesting things that simply have no way or at least no idea how to let people know about them."
Also, I think there are lots of people with great ideas that just don't speak up or follow through with them. I would love to see these ideas come to fruition and one key to that is opportunity and being part of a network that can make things happen.

Scott, if it seems I've thought "long and hard" about this its because I come from the perspective of a board member and Visual Arts Committee member of Artsworcester where we discuss similar issues.

terrible_buddhist's picture

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I had 2 problems with the last version of the mixer...

1) Monday nights...after all the years of Christina setting aside nights so I could have band practice, it has been my turn to return the favor, so Mon & Wed have been out for me.

2) I know in the last version I would try as a band member to mix with other bands and bookers to get shows, promote the band, make friends, whatever. This was cool for the first couple, but as you alluded to, after a while it was the same couple bands like us and craig, and Dickie and Eric.

Don't get me wrong, I loved to see them, but on the useful scale, it started to wane. There was also really no way of identifying people (NAME TAGS) so you didn't know who to target, and it was a bit tough to strike up conversations with any one and every one to try to figure out who you were talking to. I always thought it would be good to take a cue from AA and have a quick...hi my name is...

3) the new version I came in as a member with out a band. I didn't go to all of them, so it could have been different on a night I wasn't there, but all the people I talked to where already in a band trying to get gigs, Eric and Dickie, or selling salsa.

Those are my observations...that and its awesome to have some one like Duncan who isn't afraid to beat his head against the wall to try to get stuff like this together.

punky's picture

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I think myspace/linkedin have made everyone lazy.
I cant even tell you how many times bands have sent me emails asking me how they can get a gig at The Dog and when I tell them to go to The Dog and talk to Erick they say they will send him a myspace message....yeah, because that is going to distinguish you from the 60 other bad bands that messaged him today.

duncan's picture

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What I may turn this into is something more of a private workshop type thing, maybe at my house or someone else's house. And although I was kidding about the Water Buffalo Hats, I am not kidding about something like a membership based groups of musicians all contributing and organizing group events. This is something I would advertise up here, but ultimately it would be a private thing. Scott Riccuiti and I have talked at length about this idea, so I at the very least it will be a club of two.

nytmare's picture

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Mixers ...
I dig the concept but have gone maybe twice ever many years ago. I didn't have an objective and maybe that was my problem ... wasn't trying to get a gig, sell a CD, get a favor, trade services, etc.. And I ended up just talking with people I already knew. Not very productive; I know...

I like the semi private/opted collective idea. Because I think it can get people to help/contribute/advise/work on other shit even if it doesn't directly involve them. I don't care who it includes or excludes, who bennefits or who doesn't, I just get excited when bigger things come from it. 'Zines, reviews, websites, new bands, compilations, projects, showcases, big shows, etc. Stuff like IYLM Comps, GSMS, shows in the park, etc. And usually that kind of energy snowballs and other normal networking shit ends up happening organically.

brilliantriot's picture

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Don't you think making it membership based sort of defeats the purpose?
I know I really have no right to talk, as we never made it to any of the second incarnations...
but monday nights were/are tough.

The idea is wonderful, but making it an "exclusive" club seems to me would just be the same ol' bunch of people who already play out together. Not much new blood.

My 2 cents.

duncan's picture

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Nope not a exclusive club, but a membership based organization that sponsors events and actively functions as a group. The meetings would be a sort of mixer. There is power in a union! :)

This is not to take place of a open type of meetup that I still think works great, just as an additional project that I don't actually have time for but will probably do anyway.

In a way this website was built to be a online version of this concept and has proven its worth in my opinion. The networking mixer is just a branch of this idea.

I have a good idea as to why the past few mixer weren't as well attended (though still attended by some) and I am going to work on that and I'll advertise the new ones when they get going again.

brilliantriot's picture

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well, I'd like to try and be more involved. Does it count that I myself am not the actual musician in our family?

duncan's picture

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Of course it counts. One of the things that I always tried to make clear is that although my interest is in music and musicians, interested people, designers, artist, photographers, web designers, writers, film makers and so many others can help musicians and visa versa. When I would see artists down there like Aaron White showing his stuff I was really psyched because I saw that a band might want to have his art for an album, for example.